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I would give up convenience and social acceptance to get what I really want.Your question wasn’t clear on why you have only dated men, so if it’s not because you prefer men, then read on to my advice about dating a woman. Issue 2: I don’t feel confident with women but would prefer to marry a woman and have kids blah blah over marrying a man. jitters (the kind that all straight guys get when talking to pretty girls), I suggest you dive in and ask out some girls. But, keep in mind that if you’re lack of confidence is due to the fact that you really feel more comfortable dating men, maybe you should reevaluate whether dating a woman is the right thing. Two reasons: First of all, you want to be open and honest with your partner, etc. We all know about doing the right thing, being honest, whatev.Better to get it all out in the open before you have kids, a mortgage, and less chance of finding a subsequent partner. My first thought would be, you have to tell her before you start sleeping with her. Buuuuut on the other hand, bisexuality isn’t THAT big a deal, and if it doesn’t come up until later… I asked Jay for his perspective because I thought his insight might be more helpful.So tell her, and if she reacts badly, better to know sooner rather than later. We had the following conversation: Ultimately he said “I would never consider dating someone seriously that I felt would not be okay with my sexuality.My biggest worry is that you have only dated men because you are more attracted to men, and that now you only want to date a woman for convenience/societal acceptance reasons.
As a bi man dating men, you get the benefit of understanding a little more about the other person’s gender. But don’t forget that a lot of same sex couples adopt children or use a surrogate. Issue 3: How soon should I tell a woman that I’ve had had sex/dated men? If she finds out later you may end up with a ruined relationship much further down the line- not just because you are bi, but because you lied about it. Women tend to view sex as a milestone, and she might feel deceived if you get her into be before revealing this information.I managed to figure out the exact date by looking at my credit card statement from a year ago, and finding transactions from the places I had gone the day I met Jay.I don’t view anniversaries as a huge deal, but I do view them as an opportunity to buy gifts, and I freaking LOVE buying gifts.He countered, saying that in fact he does a lot of it. The gay guys explain that all gay men are in great shape, even though it does not seem statistically possible, because gay men love going to the gym. After all, he has complained about the many trials and tribulations of being a bi male: women don’t want to date you because they think you’ll cheat with a man; men don’t want to date you because they think you’re gay and not ‘out’ yet; one of the doors on your car doesn’t unlock automatically any more (What? I mean, it’s not caused by their sexuality, but it’s still an issue…) Point being, I was pleasantly surprised that Jay was so certain he would still pick to be bi if he had the choice.