Dating evolved men
It takes a significant life event to push the Nice Guy through to purpose.
Mine was breaking my back and then my woman leaving me because I failed to claim my purpose. Women who choose and remain with Bad Boys don’t believe they can attract one of the few real men.
Where the Bad Boy constantly shows the potential he has to offer the Nice Guy continually talks about his insecurities.
Nice Guys aren’t interested in fighting for the attention of a woman. Instead they try to win her outside of competition.
It’s their “survival suit” designed to keep them from being noticed and out of fights.
Women instantly recognize the “survival suit” of the Nice Guy and know that he will wilt in conflict with Bad Boys.
According to “Labor of Love: The Invention of Dating” (Farrar, Straus and Giroux), a sprawling new history by Moira Weigel, the first female daters faced exactly that — mistaken, in their quest for love, for prostitutes.
As with concepts like the “teenager” and “middle-class,” dating is an historically recent invention, spurred by an influx of women into the big cities seeking work around the turn of the 20th Century.
The Bad Boy continually shows signs of WANTING to be magnificent, the Nice Guy continually demonstrates his fear of claiming it.The Evolved woman sees through the games and the charms of the Bad Boy. She sees his potential as well, but she’s no longer a player in “the game”.She has no time for the Bad Boy and no sexual attraction to the Nice Guy.Many women are susceptible to the games and charms the Bad Boy has perfected over his decades of hunting women.